Be master of your petty annoyances and conserve your energies for the big, worthwhile things. It isn't the mountain ahead that wears you out - it's the grain of sand in your shoe.
So I gave up talking about people for lent.
I'm not a big talker about people, or gossiper.
But I was noticing a trend.
I was getting annoyed with people I didn't even know.
And talking about them.
So you can imagine that might bleed over into those I do know.
I wasn't liking the trend at all.
I failed miserably in my lenten sacrifice.
But, by the time lent ended, I thought long and hard
anytime I thought about talking about someone.
Even the guy who pulls up beside the line of cars waiting for the train on Broadway.
Where there's not a second lane.
You know what I'm talking about.
Where there's not a second lane.
You know what I'm talking about.
I was even saving up some things to talk about.
Until after lent.
I even started the e-mail to say "we've got to talk".
But I deleted it without sending it.
It's progress.
1 comments:
Good for you. :)
That can be a real struggle. I just try to think of what it will accomplish. If it only serves to make me feel better then it's not worth saying. If it will help build a relationship or improve things for others, then I might go ahead and start the conversation.
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